I saw the lawyer today and was told to stay the course and wait and see what happens. My wife has low self esteem and I believe she is in a point in her life where she is not happy and has literally blamed me for this.I am relieved that at least for now I can try Michelles plan and see what works to save the marriage. I am still in the 180 mode. My wife asked me if I had dinner and that there was food for me. She seems nice at times and other times very distant. It really bothers me that she has not slept in my bed for 7 months. I found out an old girlfriend of my wife invited her to her parents 50 th anniversary party and did not invite me. This has hurt me very much but I did not show it bothered me. This has been a very long road and I only pray that things will improve. Bobby O
