H4L, I'm so glad you're reading that book. It really does normalize the nightmare that we go through. Just the physical symptoms alone are unreal.
H saying he was looking forward to seeing you...I hope this encourages you to stay dim! Keep it up! You're going to have to be strong tomorrow to avoid conversations/arguments. He will feel your distance and may want to engage you somehow. Like Freckle advises: have a plan for how you're going to react to positive or negative attention from him...and still keep your distance.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.