embracing change

[flowmom]

H just took the kids for the night. S6 was asking about dinner plans and H made a big deal about not telling him in front of me..."we'll talk about it in the car". I also noticed that H was wearing the nice shoes that I bought him that he never wears. I feel pissed off about H playing mindgames. He shouldn't be doing anything with the children that he can't readily disclose to me. Of course I wonder if his plans involve my children being in contact with an OW.