Patience is key.

Granted we have come so far. Looking back to when this first began, especially weeks 3-5, my W was harsh, bitter and cold toward me. Everything I did or said was wrong and for whatever the reason may be she calmed down a lot. But...

I need help with goal setting. To know that the changes I see in my W are good and not just her giving up entirely to the point where it does not matter anymore. I had set goals before but maybe not obtainable ones... If I post goals can someone help revise them to b alittle more obtainable and DB worthy?


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10