Had a pretty good BD lunch with W yesterday. We were together about 2+ hours and talked about a lot of things. She never did say that OM was in town "visiting" and I'm kind of glad because I don't know what I would have done. I believe that it has turned into a PA but she didn't come right out and say that. Some good interaction between the two of us. She does get sad about her relationship with D20 but she brought it on herself but I didn't say that. I talked about her moving back home and that I know a lot of people need her there and she said that she needs them too. I also mentioned that her kids needed her too and that pushed some buttons so I backed off.
Went out with some of the cast last night after rehearsal and I had more to drink than I normally do but didn't make a fool out of myself. W texted this morning that she hoped I had a good BD and I texted back that I did and that I hoped she has had some good days lately and that I know about OM being in town. Haven't heard anything back since then.
Not sure why I let her know I knew but I just was tired of playing the game and wanted it to be out in the open. She had no trouble telling the kids that he was coming to town and they could probably assume that they were sleeping together but it isn't ok for me to know for some reason. I can't believe the thinking that she must be using that it is ok to have her kids think that and that she wants them to meet him and like him and all of that. Another WAW conundrum I guess!
Time to GO DARK with NC and see what happens next.
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
