It sounds like he doesn't know what he really wants.

I think you are doing the right thing in choosing to file for yourself; if he wants to stop it, he should step up and say so.

This reminds me of a small anecdote. My wife and I are IM buddies, so we can see each other log in and out. For the most part, I'm online unless I have to reboot my desktop (uninstalling or reinstalling software, patches, etc.)

Anyway, it was almost lunchtime and I needed to reboot my machine. So I set it to restart and started to get ready to go get lunch when I get a text message on my phone. I forget the exact wording but it was something to the effect of "are you leaving early today?"

Not even 2 minutes had passed since I had restarted my computer! What on earth would make her think a) I had a half day, and b) that I wouldn't tell her I was leaving work early?

Last edited by TrentC; 04/07/10 11:38 PM.
Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."