WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

OMG DG, is your H crazy stealing the mortgage money? The house is his asset too isn't it? How stressful for you (((DG))).

Yup I think he's well and truly spun right now... Thanks for the support.. I really need it right now..

Apparently he feels he "overpaid" child support by giving me all his pay from Nov to Jan when he started school.. so now he thinks he can take back at will... plus he's still ticked at the income tax thing..

He really has very little money sense... sort of like if he gets a $1000 pay, he can't understand why he still doesn't have $1000 even though he took out $20 6 times...

It another one of his "lessons" I'm assuming.. He had to take on the finances when his dad passed (H was 16) as his mom "checked out" with alcohol, etc. So he learned to handle money without any guidance.. I always understood this, but he would never admit he had anything to learn from me on that front...

As for the mediation thing, I think he figured out that he would not have the info to file for custody by himself and this way the work gets done for him.. Not good enough for me.. If he wants to finalize the custody, he'll have to file for them and do the work.. I'm not helping at all..

I've heard from a few legal sources that he doesn't have a leg to stand on because of the OW in another country and all that's gone on so far...

I don't have to do anything to forward the formalizing of things, so I'm not going to. Let him do the work....