mountaintop - is there still any hope for reconciliation?
That's something I think only Luvless could decide for her situation.
For me, when I went into our mediation, I was ready for the worst. Our mediator got my W and I to work for 6 months more, with a mediated agreement. The beauty of a mediator over a L~. Who knows what comes next, but one who doesn't try everything they can accept as reasonable will always be left wondering.