Almost done with the account switching.. should be able to close the joint accounts tomorrow after work cuz I have to go in person to do it..
Got a call from SIL1 late yesterday to take the remainder of the money from the mortgage payment out of the account as H was planning on taking it too.. So I did...
She said something mildly interesting.. said that H claims he didn't know I called the cops over March break.. that he never got a call from them but that he left OW house because they were fighting.. He also told OW not to listen to a word I say because I'm crazy and just want him back... I might as well get a copy of the police report and see what's what... I'd need it in court anyway...
SIL1 ripped him a new one over the phone and kicked him out again.. but I knew it wouldn't be for long.. she's too afraid of losing him as a brother forever...And she's 100% enabler of everyone... Sure enough he's still there..
H emailed me today saying he agrees to mediation for custody issues and would I like him to make the appointment or will I do it...
Thinking I'm going to tell him that I've reconsidered mediation due to the complexity of a special needs child involved... This way he'd have to file for custody and (as of March 1) create a life plan for both kids... he hasn't a clue what our son needs or who is involved in his care.. Has no idea of high school courses planned or anything.. so I can't see OW being able to help much with it either..
If we go through mediation, the mediator would do all the "work" for him and I'd have to give what I know... and I'm in no hurry for this right now..
I just wish he'd hit bottom already.. I sense that he's close... but not there yet.. If not bottom.. go live with OW for a while so they can just finally break up for good..
Not holding my breath though..
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