It really comes down to the fact that all the proof you have been keeping and how much you see the girls and W's schedule she gave you, you really have to bring it to your L and let him take control and make sure you get what you want. You are paying your L to make sure you get joint custody so you need to let him take care of that. I also know in IN the temporary order is just part of the process, but you also need to make sure as was said that the temporary order comes out in your favor or you really will have a harder time getting more. It is important to bring up what the girls are already used to and what the schedule has been the entire school year include how both girls have been doing better in school, except when W filed. Keep everything about the welfare of the girls. Focus on them and do what is best for them.
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