If your H complains to you Pass about your calling him :
"when he calls me and asks me to stop I will.. its not YOUR phone I cam calling so its none of your damn business"
"And more to the point, I am NOT harassing him, I am keeping him informed on the state of his marraige... something his WIFE should ahve been doing... I unlike YOU am trying to SAVE a family from breaking up... instead of attacking innocent children and putting them through a nightmare"