One more thing just popped into my mind... when I called OW, H responded with a VERY forceful (read: unlike him) and VERY angry "the harassing phone calls and emails WILL stop."
One more reason to keep up the phone calls. It's definitely getting to him.
Read OfficerInNeeds earlier posts, you will see how powerful a two-way communication is between both LBS'... he made a good contact in OMW in his sitaution and they exchange INTEL regularly to keep an eye on the other two WS'... he has pretty much busted up his afair and I honeslty think a large partof it was the two way communication he setup
It's definitely getting to him. 
