SA - H's TLC is the best part I missed it so much. SCH - Thank you. I know it's only money...our health is what's important. And pneumonia is nothing to play with.
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H called in the afternoon, said that he knows that daughter has an activity that she needs to be driven to and he would like to do it so I can rest, but that he has a meeting downtown at that time. Said that I should just drop her off and he will at least pick her up on his way back from his meeting.
He also calls daughter on daily basis now and tonight he invited her & her BF to dinner.
There is such a change in him, again it's like if someone switched a switch. I see a lot of the old H that I used to know, the alien seems to be gone right now.
Watching...observing...but my heart is melting a bit
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That is a good thing isn't it when the MLCer actually pays attention, meaning your D's activity schedule? Just keep it cool so your heart doesn't melt too fast! :-)
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
Sounds good....stay the course. Whatever you are doing is working!
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so I can rest
Another positive!
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There is such a change in him, again it's like if someone switched a switch. I see a lot of the old H that I used to know, the alien seems to be gone right now.
I am so excited for you! These all appear to be positives.
As you probably already know...try and keep your expections within reason but things are really good for you.
I am SO happy for you!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
I dont have bronchitis to deal with, but the pollen here is killing me!!
Glad your H is making more efforts to reconnect with your Daughter and getting some TLC from him is good too!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Still feeling pretty sick, canceled our business meeting with H for this morning.
I guess because of my being sick, I feel that we don't talk enough with H. We will see how it goes when I get better. I want H to initiate our talks...I don't want to press.
He is dealing with his "grief" over his affair and the damage that it has caused...and that will probably take a while. I'm guessing that as he continues closing that chapter he will slowly try to reconnect with us. No hurry, slowly does it....
D said that H made a nice spaghetti dinner for her & her BF yesterday. They stayed at his place for over 4 hours. Watched D's childhood videos.
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OW's Husband called me today. His wife is back at home and back in the marital bed and getting movers to move everything back home from her apartment.
Apparently they have been talking for more then 2 weeks about her coming back home. OW only told my WH last Saturday. OW's H feels good about how things are going for them.
My H has been quiet yesterday. I called him last night about a business question and he sounded pretty down. He called this morning to cancel our meeting because he has a job on the go with a deadline. Again sounded pretty down.
I'm just letting him be. He seems pretty deep in his OW withdrawal/MLC depression right now.
I called him just now that I'm going to take a look at a new washer/dryer (my dryer just died) tonight and he mentioned couple of days ago that he wanted to come with me, so I asked if he still wants to. He said yes, I said "So I'll meet you at my house?" he replied "You mean our house". Also offered to take daughter to her activity before we go and I offered that I'll make dinner in the meantime and he can eat with us.
Still didn't sound upbeat or happy, but at least he is doing the right things.
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I missed it so much.