Please read the above two posts. I need to know what to do. I'm dreading practice tonight. I know that I've gotta "go dark" and do the LRT but I'm not doing well. I've had to see him almost nightly for over a week and with his leaving being so recent, it's a little hard right now to act like I'm happy. I can't sit quietly and not talk or when I do, do so politely but I can't force myself to laugh and act happy right now. I'm feeling like this is never gonna happen. He's going through with it. It's been 19 days and in that short time, he's gone from moving out and wanting a divorce to trying to put our house up for sale, trying to discuss money arrangements to adhere to for the next year (when a divorce would be final), opened his own checking account, etc. He's making all of this happen so fast. He's wants it over YESTERDAY. His family hasn't called in over a week. I'm not sure that he's talking to them but regardless of whether he is or not, they don't seemed too concerned. His mother is scared to talk to him because (he gets it from her) if she says something wrong, he won't think anything of not speaking to her for a year. He's done it to his parents before. No one is trying to talk to him or help him or help my marraige. The only person that I know he's talking to is the family friend of his since the age of 4 and I'm not sure that I can trust her to talk sense into him. I'm losing hope fast.
