Yeah, I think I get to her. For instance, I sent Puppy's suggestion to her facebook message (just to jab a little) ME: I'm sorry you're choosing to lash out at me; I am not your enemy here. I felt you deserved to know the truth about what was going on, so you could do with it what you wish. And her response was: OW: How am I lashing out at you? Of course you're not an enemy, in fact I'm just asking how you're able to be married to a man who has disrespected you in the way that you described to me? You told me the truth about him but yet you remained married to him, so my question to you is, how are you able to have any sense of self worth or any respect for yourself to be married to a person who has done all those negative things? Do you understand my confusion? He is your husband not mine and so how is my being shocked 'lashing out' at you? Would you be able to explain your defensiveness to me so I can understand? I apologize for offending you .
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