i need someone to take all of my phones away from me!
I remember saying that to my folks several times!! It was about 6 weeks ago after a particularly damaging fight that I realised I finally needed to stop the conact as it hurt ME so much (and WAH - but I didn't care too much about that!!!).
This is why No Contact is essential.
You probably need to set yourself a goal. 3-4 weeks. You are early enough in your pregnancy to still do this. NC is going to get harder in a month or so, so do it now is my strong feeling.
If there is something to say to him beofore that, plut it in email. Keep it civil and encourage/wish him well for the counselling for him. Agee what you can agree on, ignore the rest. Be vague about you. Keep him guessing. Don't give him insight into your emotions. Just tell him that you and the naby need space and peace and you know he understands that. Get my drift?
