I would forward the OW email to her H and cc her on it with the simple message ... "please work on your M while we work on ours. Thank you."

It's unbelievable how entitled these OP are sometimes.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER