I can't be married with someone who isn't sure what she wants.
It may help you to reframe this: I won't be married to someone who chooses someone else over me.
Because I'm not sure you've really come to terms with that. All W's talk about not being sure is code for I don't want to have to choose--I want both of you. Unless you can verify that she is no longer in contact with OW and has definitively ended that R then you have to assume that she is still involved with OW.
Wisdom, all of this. ^
Puppy
AB, You have a choice in how you let other people treat you.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
