1. OW will HATE that you are poking into her marriage... it puts HER on the defensive 2. It will make your H a bit defensive too 3. It forces exposure further out in the open.. the more you call, the more this affair gets seen by everyone 4. It gives OWH someone to talk to 5. It brings REALITY to the affair and takes the fun from it - putting it to a quicker demise
Thre's more, but if you put your mind to it, INTEL isnt' the only reason to keep that communiction line running strong
EVEN if SHE picks up the phone... there is a way to send a message right to voice mail. Let her listen and delete it.. don't give HER intel ... in this case you give her COUNTER-INTEL ... just talk like you expect her H to hear it and say something that will put pressure on HER.
"My husband's acting weird today, being quite affectionate and wanting to talk..." etc
If OW hears that its gonna put some pressure on them over there.
Just talk as if you don't expect her to hear it, but feed info in that will provoke a fight with OW and your H.
Even mentioning the thing about H saying he wanted to help you get the well fixed is NOT going to be received well by OW.. its going to piss her off... the more REALITY you throw at their end the better...
Counter Initelligence works too... just force the call to voicemail and leave counter intel for her instead...
