How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

The thing is Allen, through-out this entire sitch we have still done things with each other, such as the concerts, shopping, movies ect...but all along she would say "I'm still leaving" "just co-existing" and that is where I have been so confused. I mean look at what happened this past thursday if you go back to that post, she wanted to go do something and get something for the house then when I asked where she wanted to go look she turned it around as if she never said such and asked me how I was going to handle the mortgage after she left?.... So I don't know