I have seen signs of pursuit on her part pretty much if I go to opposite level of the house as her she is asking what am I doing.
OK, so this kinda dismisses the earlier concern you had that emotinal distance on your part is a turn off... it looks like it HELPS
I say keep up the kind actions. I DO think that puts a HUGE dent in her feelings of leaving. Making the lunches for the two of you and such... she wont say thank you but her internalizing reconsiering her wanting to leave is a thank you enough... she is showing signs you have her thinknig about this more...
She woudl'nt volunteer to go places with you if she was "counting the days".. but obvously don't call her on that
If you said something like "I thought you were counting the days.. NOW you want to go places with me?... Car to explain this contradiction?"
SHe would BOLT if you tried that stunt.
Just accept that what she SAYs isnt' what she's DOING.. she's ACTING as if he's exploring reconcilliation... ignore the thrats and focus on what she's doing.
