Ok. Just checked the mail and got a debit card for him. Apparently he's opened a seperate checking account. Do I just hand him the card tonight with all the bill info and say nothing? I opened it thinking they were mailing yet another set to us from when I lost mine a month ago. They'd sent four already so I thought they messed up again. Maybe he's opening his own account to deposit his check there, pay bills and only give me a small amount??? What do I do? We've had joint accounts for 14 years.


M:34, H:35, K: S12 & D5
T:17 yrs, M:14 yrs
S:3/19/10 seems 2B MLC, Depression, & Poss OW

Threads: Newcomers (H left almost 3 weeks ago...)
WAS (17 years and no explanation)