The goal here from your posts is that ulitmately you want HER persuing YOU.
As long as you are chasing her, she's not going to move a muscle.
Even longigng looks at her is pursuit... be VERY careful with those.. it can be STRESSFUL from her position to have someone gaze at her like that...
But this is all good. It makes no sense why she would want to do something together if she's just "counting the days" so you can take this as evidence that she's reconsidering.