Oh surviving....you and I are on a very similar roller coaster. Normally I love roller coasters but this one totally sucks.

My h last night texted me:

H- I don't know what to do

me- about what?

H- us

me- are you asking me to make a decision for you?

H- it's not just mine...for us

me- what do you mean "it's not just mine"

H- never mind get some sleep

really this conversation makes absolutely no sense to me. Twice now in the last three days he has asked to talk about "us" via text and then not said anything...WTF? I am still being dark. Really all I can do he is driving me bonkers and I just can't be involved in his highschool drama. I think my husband is a little different than your h... I think mine wants me to give him permission for a d.... so it is my fault not his. Who knows though really. He might as well speak Spanish to me....I might understand it better. LOL


He said "us". I asked him


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