Or show the email to the OW. I can see them laughing at me now.
I used to write long, flowery love letters to H at the beginning of our R. He finally told me that words mean nothing to him, I can write well and he didn't internalize what they said to him. It hurt, took away one of the ways I communicated my love to him.
I am not reccomending you put anything vulnerable in there... just reiterate what you did the first night you confronted him and give him a chance to say what he wants... with your CAR in TACT.
Unless you can think of something to put in there that might prompt HIM to say something you can forward to OW.
If he says anything destructive to HER, I would keep prompting that out of him... and if you get enough, forward it all to her.
But YOU don't need to get emotional... he's already admitted it means nothing anyways.. the email is just a SAFER route for you two to "talk" than HIS domineering approach.
