Boy or Boy do I need help with that. I don't know how to start this whole process again......looks like I made a lot of mistakes in the beginning before I found this site and after I found it.

Do I go dark? I mean we had relations 3 weeks ago and haven't heard from H and we were discussing dating and then he just went back into the tunnel again, I guess. After I said to him "you just don't know what you want do you?" he said no. A couple of days later he claims he never said it.

Now what?


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08