I think you need to figure out if you care before you make choices that rob your of your options.
The roller coaster exists, because of expectations. Expectations of being hurt, expectations of hope, expectations of any number of things. You lose those expectaions of her, and focus on yourself and suddenly the roller coaster isn't so bad.
IF she is in MLC, I will say that the number of MLCers who have an affair is very high. I did not say 100% though. But If nothing IS going on...then are you pretending that nothing is going on?
Figure out if you care first though. Go from there.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
