Babydoll, dont care why he wants to go. HE WANTS TO GO! Take it as an opportunity to show him that you want to work on your marriage. An opportunity to work things out and have things put out on the table.
For things to be discussed and worked out. PEImom said find a marriage friendly solution oriented C who is positive that you can work out your problems do just that.
Do not worry about his motives. All I can think is that he is going to see that your M is worth saving also and he will have his eyes and heart opened to R.
I like all this empty space because i can now type out things that are important.
Like: D7 S2 starting swimming lessons on 3/30
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