TrentC, i did leave a message with a Pro-Marriage C that I spoke to weeks ago, when we thought about co-parenting C. She basically said she thought he was scared, etc. I am not done with him, that's the problem. He left me pregnant, filed for divorce 60 days later, and i cant stop loving him or thinking we have what it takes to make things work between us.
Last I told him was if he wanted to go to C then book it, pay for it, and let me know when it is i would drop everything and show up...
maybe i just need to back of a bit and see what happens. everytime i back away, he inches closer... he confuses me and i dont think he knows what he wants!
I overthink everything entirely too much!
But if the C calls me back I will ask her what she thinks...