Thanks P. That was exactly how I envisioned it... i though it was H trying to make me see, along with a C, that we truly have no hope. needless to say, conversations have turned ugly, once again, and I truly need to have NC with him. I say such awful things, and it is not right for him to hear, the baby to hear or for me to say. He is rotten bc of what he did, and I can not become an angry bitter person bc of it.
i did tell him he should go back to counseling on his own.
Another day... more drama...
i need someone to take all of my phones away from me!