I'm taking off my ring April 9

[AmyBel]

: you're still being way too nice.

Puppy

I know. I know. I know. I know... dang it all! I don't WANT to be learning this lesson. <full on 2-year-old-style temper tantrum!>

OK. deep breath. I know this is good for me.

Mantra for tonight: We are doing a trial separation. No more sudden course changes at least through my graduation (May 16). No acting married, no being wifely, no being either one's support person or partner. I can't be married with someone who isn't sure what she wants.