I'm worried about her well being and can't do anything bout it. Gotta worry about MY well being right now.
I know you are, Amy, and that's because you're a good person. But my read on your "may I drive you?, etc." exchange above is that -- at this stage still, anyway -- this was all about HER feeling better.
I'll reiterate what I said to you yesterday: it's not your job to make HER feel better, about her poor decisions.
I really don't have any more high-minded way of saying this, Amy: you're still being way too nice.
