Jas,

I know how you feel about being/living on your own. It's not me that is going through a MLC it is my H. When he left 17 months ago today I started suffering from depression also because I was never on my own. I was scared also and still to this day I am.

Well, at least that is part of my problem. I want H back and our M and family back as a whole but the people on here are so right. We need to heal ourselves first then hopefully our S will return.

Yes, we are in the opposite position but I do know how you feel as far as being depressed, learning how to live alone, and working on detachment.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08