W called me last night and invited me and my son to Easter dinner on Sunday at the house. It's more like a "come over and eat" type of invite, but I accepted and will make the best of it.
Tom, Hey, hope you are doing well. I am slowly catching back up on some threads and I wanted to make an observation on your last post.
Sometimes we miss the progress we have made b/c we are standing so close to the situation. If you go back and read your posts from the beginning I think you will see your W wanted you out of the house period, done, don't come back. IMO this is a positive step even though it doesn't feel the way you want it to. It is a small step.
Make sure you write it down. If you keep it up and I know it is hard to do, you will see other things very slowy at first. But then they come faster and faster.
Hang in there.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
