OK so I was looking through the draft emails and I found this one I was going to send her. This is the day after it was clear that she's not moving back in.

Quote:

"Granted I wrote the last emails not realizing that you've already decided to not come back I still want to know what I did this time?

- You're not in any kind of danger (you used to say my anger was out of control)
- I never ask where you go or who you see etc (you used to say I was controlling)
- I never try to make you feel hurt inside (you asked me to never bring up things that happened when we were separated and I never did)
- I even tell you to not worry about your job and I tell you to turn your downtime into something positive (you used to say I wasn't supportive - which couldn't be further from the truth).
"


So I'm sitting here pondering if I should send it to her or not? I guess it would be against the DB rules because it's R talk.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again