Midlife Crisis? Affair? Dunno...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I learned long ago that there is a wide gulf on these boards between people who are supportive of people living in R's with WAS or dealing with an ongoing EA/PA, and people who say "f--k that, if they do xxxx, then you should just walk away"

I agree, here in MLC as of lately it has been supportive of the LBS living in R's with a MLC WAS...even of ignoring the affairs...not to say to be a doormat or bury your head in the sand. But that nothing the LBS is going to do is going to end the affair if their spouse is in MLC...more than likely push them together AND if you go that route you might as well book them the hotel room AND undress them. : )

I have told her that over and over "Get rid of the guy and our issues are gone.

Cough! Cou...bullshit...gh! Cough!

You believe that?

Your (collective) issues are gone?

That is far from the truth based upon what you ahve written up until now. Do not lie to yourself...or to her.

Grasshoppa,

You're an example I do not want to follow, we both started posting here about the same time, but you fell back into old ways, and that scares me, it scares me in myself, and I strive not to forget the lessons I learned here.

What are you doing right now to improve yourself, AND what are you putting in place to prevent your from sliding backwards?

Then again, I am not entirely sure I am in the same place, or have the same desire to stick things out this time that I did last time.

I TOTALLY understand that line of thinking.