well...I guess sometimes I just read along and things jump out at me..I mean...sometimes it's hard to figure out if you're actually moving forward..or you're stuck...you're not the only one..I think it's more a male/female thing..I think guys may just move on faster that's all..
BBJ..I'm not trying to be an ass..I mean..I did not want to attempt to get you to remember the bad things he did..
I guess I wonder if you can ever have a new relationship if you still "love" the person who you were once married to, but are no longer with..
I was not trying to be an ass but may have come across that way...
Mikey I definitely do NOT think you are an ass!! I have missed you actually...I knew you were going somewhere with that question.
Maybe it is a mars/venus thing. Maybe it is something I should talk about with my counselor today. I know that he has done so very many things that are just unacceptable and are things you don't do to someone you love...or if you do and then realize you made a terrible mistake, you don't partially blame them, or refuse to seek help, and then do it again...
I don't mind looking at the mental list of things he did that hurt. I don't wave it in his face like a vindictice shrew, I don't show it off to the world as proof that I have 'been wronged'...but it helps me get a reality check when I start thinking we can be ok friend types while raising our kids.
I don't know, if I have to wait until I feel no love for him at all, I may never date again....I really don't know...
