Sorry that the original post was so long, y'all. I did email them and ask that they delete it so that people would see the revised version and hopefully respond. Thx so much for reading and responding. I'm sure all of you know how much it helps to have people to lean on that have been through this and still understand wanting to save a marriage no matter how hard.
Going finish balancing the three checking accounts so that he knows the money available while trying to figure out bill payments, budgets, and I guess what amount of money he wants to give me. He's gonna be pissed when I hand it to him with no emotion. He's NEVER handled the finances at all. He's gonna freak, get pissed, insist on selling the house, etc,
