Eric, No worries on the hijacking, hijack away. I am having trouble finding the time to get on the boards these days. I could not get on last night. Sounds like a good plan. I can say that "allowing things to happen" is a great statement of letting go of control, so easily said and so hard to do.
TF, So good to hear from you. No my D13 has not warmed up but is doing better these days, the therapy is helping. We came close to going the psychiartrist route and started her on Anti D's but then she started doing better.
My W came over on Monday to pick up S9 and ended up staying until 10 pm. I asked D13 if she minded and she just stayed in her room and watched TV and ate dinner up there. Usually my D13 gets very upset if my W is in the house. My W was there for 3.5 hours and it did not seem to have an effect on my D13 the next day.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.