What did you mean about the D papers not being the magic pill? I didn't quite understand that one.
It just means that he may be (or at some point be) idealizing that a divorce/permanent split will fix all his problems and automatically make his life blissfully happy because he will have gotten rid of all that is wrong in his world--you.
I'm NOT saying you are why he is or was unhappy. That's what he thinks though. And if it comes to the point of a D, he will find that he has all the same problems and unhappiness but now he can't blame them on you and your M. That's because the reasons why we are all here is because of things far deeper than silly things like you not cooking a homemade dinner often enough, KWIM?
Me38,H:38,S:7 Married:6/99 Bomb:7/04 Sep.:5/05 D Filed:3/08;Final 1/10 Piecing:11/09 H moved back:09/10 Current thread: http://tiny.cc/htcty
