well...I guess sometimes I just read along and things jump out at me..I mean...sometimes it's hard to figure out if you're actually moving forward..or you're stuck...you're not the only one..I think it's more a male/female thing..I think guys may just move on faster that's all..

BBJ..I'm not trying to be an ass..I mean..I did not want to attempt to get you to remember the bad things he did..

I guess I wonder if you can ever have a new relationship if you still "love" the person who you were once married to, but are no longer with..

I was not trying to be an ass but may have come across that way...