soleil, you summed it up so well. I'm locked in a double-standards situation. It is so hurtful to have your words twisted, especially when you know exactly what you said, how you said it, and the context in which it was said.
I understand what you mean that the lack of guilt is a huge problem. When you said this, it made me realize that I would feel much worse if he had no guilt or remorse. I guess I'm doomed either way, though.
