First thing he tells me he is getting his own phone account when he gets his paycheck tomorrow. He was grousing about the cost of it like it was my fault we have to take on this extra expense. He then managed to bring up everything he thinks I did wrong in the last 8 years, including how he has to keep his women friends a secret so I won't get mad at him, while I try to explain over and over that it's the SECRET that makes me mad, not the friends. He doesn't believe me because he says that he KNOWS me and he KNOWS I would just get mad despite what I say otherwise...
Then I was doing dishes in the kitchen when he pulls something out of the cabinet and quickly hides it behind his back and scuttles from the room. When he comes back into the room I asked him what all that was about and he just kept saying nothing and that I'll find out later. I started getting really upset at his denials and it was just too much for me and I started crying. He left the house to go take care of dogs at his moms house without telling me what he was hiding. As soon as he leaves I of course start looking for what it was. Looked everywhere didn't find a thing, but I am feeling really upset at this point. Then I go to sit at my computer, open my laptop, and in there is a card asking me out on a date.
Now, I like that he is asking me on a date, he hasn't arranged a date or outing for us since we have been living together. But I was still hurt that he didn't just give me the card and tell me what was going on when I was noticeably upset. It's like he wanted me to be upset over nothing so I could just feel stupid about being upset later. When he get's home I know he's gonna say "see you were upset over nothing" or some such thing. And why, if he had this date planned, would he have behaved the way he did this morning? I want to be happy about the date but I really feel like he is jerking me around a bit. Or maybe I'm being to sensitive? I don't know.
