Everyone's sitch is different. Sometimes it is just circumstances out of one's control that cause a M break down.

Don't take what I was saying to passenger and apply it to your own sitch. I was trying to get something across to her and I was trying to make her think and stop spewing what I felt was unhelpful stuff, at her husband. Things she had said in her previous posts made me feel that she needed to stop and review her position. I thought some reflection might help her.

I don't know your sitch, so don't sweat what I was saying to passenger - please.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength