it's a combination of detaching, seeing a new and exciting life,
I would call this personal growth and acceptance! Kudos to you.
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I am very concerned that I am no longer concerned w/ what happens w/ W
You probably feel this way because....
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being inspired by someone whom has shown me a new way of looking at life..
IMO - I'm not sure if you are detaching too much. The reality is that YOU need to live YOUR life. You cannot stop living. Are you rushing into a new R? Maybe but only you know the answer to that.
You've mentioned that you still love your W - then maybe you should take the new R slowly....and I mean slowly...allow yourself the time to go thru the feeling that you will need to go thru in order to have some closure on your M. You do not want to rush into something only to have your W come back and have you second guess your new R.
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so I will not think this feeling will ever go away.
Allow the feelings..buddy...fell them and GO THRU them. Do not run away and cover them with someone else.
BTW I have not seen an "I'm going to the movies" post in a while.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans