This morning my W tried to start an argument but I bit my tongue. I had washed clothes which included her work uniform. She made the comment "great my pants sat in the dryer too long, mext time I'll do it myself, get them out myself" and I said nothing and just let it go.
That's exactly the kind of rude disrespect I think you need to call her on, when it happens.
I don't care WHAT her psychological issues are, appeasement just is never a good strategy.
