Well D13 lost her cell phone so she called H last night from mine. She talked for about 2 minutes because she wanted to go outside with her friends. Then about 10 minutes later my phone rings and it was H, I figured he was looking for D13 so I didn't answer it. I waited about 20 min. then texted him and told him that she wasn't home and did he want her to call him when she did get home. He said no because he was getting ready to go to bed and that he wanted to know if she wanted to go fishing today after school.

I asked if he wanted me to have her text him then to let him know and he said yes please. I just text back saying yep. I'm trying so hard at this detaching stuff but it seems like every time I turn around his name is being mentioned by D13. Then I go right back to being sad again. So she is going with him today after school.

What do I do? Do I just stay in the house till he picks her up or (don't know what time) do I go outside and wait with her? Make sure I look nice?

And what do I say if he texts or calls my phone to let me know what time he is picking her up? See he always just calls her phone but now he can't.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08