Then ,maybe instead of admonishing him like you did last night, when he asks you what you are thinking, perhaps you should tell him about those things you just listed above?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength