H put pictures on his wall of hiking trips we took 20 years ago (the one's without me in the picture). He put his pics of me under his bed. He's decorating ceramic pots. He's saying that living in an apartment is a temporary thing, how can people do this for a long time? He's now hanging out with his liberal minded cousins 15 years younger without kids. He's still in the market for designer furniture, but now only if he can get a "deal" on it.
