Hi Clinging, it's good to do a mini review once in a while and set yourself some new goals, even if it's just one! This experience is a rollercoaster and it comes in waves. I find there are times when I feel like I'm moving on and life is getting to where I want it to be and then suddenly I'm back treading water. It's frustrating but we each have to realize that this is not a one year, two year thing (while some are able to do it that way). You lost an incredibly meaningful R which you put years into. If you were betrayed it adds a bit more to the process. I'm not saying we sit around feeling sorry for ourselves and blame our spouses, what happened happened. I think we need to look for ways to move forward but also be kind to ourselves when we fall back. It'a a long road but that's life, I suppose. We can just do our best for ourselves and our families, who could ask for anything more than that?
